what wires do i need to connect from the s12 harness?

[silviakid]

what colour wires do i need to connect off the s12 harness to the s13 engine loom and what wires on s13 loom do they connect to? also whats the best way to wire in the 3 green relays? and what wires go on to the pins on a green relay and where do they go on the relays? if anyone could help me would be brilliant as i dont have much more to do to get my s12 going im just crap at wiring